Physiology 生理 On menstruation and the birds and the bees Before they could walk, they already knew what blood meant. Because we never hid it. We never locked the door. By Lai Yin 麗賢 / 21 Oct 2025
Placement 放置 / Subscribers A woman can love her man and his penis without being dominated by him and his sex drive. On a straight woman’s joy of keeping a penis of her own. By Lai Yin 麗賢 / 19 Oct 2025
Mortality People are performing for a performer who is dead. Grief isn’t performance. It’s breath that doesn’t fill. A reflection on Diane Keaton, loss, and saying it while they’re still alive. By Lai Yin 麗賢 / 12 Oct 2025
Orbit 軌道 My baby turned 16 today. Some nights you don’t have to hold it all. Some nights you’re simply held. By Lai Yin 麗賢 / 4 Oct 2025
Placement 放置 / Subscribers The biology of placement Plain language on oxytocin, dopamine and prolactin in placement. By Lai Yin 麗賢 / 21 Sep 2025
Placement 放置 The bed is not the field Gravity doesn’t live in the bed. It moves with the woman who holds the space. By Lai Yin 麗賢 / 14 Sep 2025
Governance / Subscribers Where are you supposed to meet your mate? (If not at work?) Work is where you build your life. You meet your mate where you live. Not where compliance manuals say it is safe. By Lai Yin 麗賢 / 7 Sep 2025
Origin 起源 The sword they carry I didn’t just birth daughters. I birthed flames. They won’t leave my house empty-handed. They will leave carrying the sword I placed. By Lai Yin 麗賢 / 31 Aug 2025