You don’t have to perform to be powerful.

Lai Yin is my blog for women leading through body, lineage, and language.

When a woman holds somatic power in her body, she holds it everywhere.

Lai Yin gives you structure to hold power,

place love and reclaim your space without apology.

This is where women stop performing.

And start leading.

You don’t need more advice. You need clarity.

You don’t need more effort. You need placement.

Backed by decades of neuroscience and behavioural research

Written in language any woman can use.

Placement

Placement is a woman reclaiming her biological leadership in her bond and her body.

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About me

I say out loud what women only whisper to themselves,

on Marriage, Motherhood, Rage, Exhaustion, Sex, Bond, Power.

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The science

Research behind somatic placement.

The Biology of Placement

The Ontology of Placement

Applied Practice: Protocols

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